My son used to love daycare—until one morning, he woke up screaming and refused to go back. I thought it was just a phase, but what I discovered left me shaken.
I’m 29, a single mom to my three-year-old son, Johnny. Until a few weeks ago, daycare was his jam. But one day, that suddenly changed. He became increasingly reluctant to go. I thought it was just a tantrum until I saw the truth for myself.
Whenever he had to go to daycare, Johnny would wake up excited, humming nonsense songs. He’d stuff his backpack with little action figures he wasn’t supposed to bring, and race down the stairs yelling, “Let’s go, Mommy!” — practically dragging me out the door.
Every morning felt like an adventure to him.
But honestly, a part of me was a little jealous that my son couldn’t wait to get away from me and spend time with other people. Still, I never held it against him. I loved that he was in a safe space that he couldn’t wait to go to.
But then, on one random Monday morning, everything changed.
I was pouring my coffee when I heard it. A scream — a real one! The kind that makes your chest lock up. I dropped my mug, shattering it, and ran upstairs two steps at a time!
Johnny was curled up in the corner of his room, clutching his blanket with both hands, his face red and soaked with tears. I knelt fast, heart pounding as I looked him over.
“What happened, baby? Are you hurt? We need to get ready to leave for daycare, my love.”
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He looked up at me with huge, panicked eyes and cried out, “No, Mommy, no! Don’t make me go!”
I blinked, confused. “Go where?”
“Daycare!” he sobbed, his voice breaking on the word as he moved to cling to my legs. “Please don’t make me!”
I held him and rocked him until he calmed down, whispering soft things that didn’t feel like enough. Maybe it was a bad dream, I thought. Or perhaps he was overtired. “Toddlers have moods, right?” I thought to myself, brushing it off.
But it wasn’t just that one day.
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The next morning, he wouldn’t get out of bed!
The moment I mentioned daycare, his lip would tremble. By Wednesday, he begged through tears not to go. Every morning, the same thing. There was panic, shaking, and pleading.
By Thursday night, I was exhausted and scared. I called our pediatrician, Dr. Adams.
“It’s normal,” she said kindly. “Separation anxiety at this age. It peaks around now.”
“But it doesn’t feel normal,” I said. “This doesn’t feel like his generic whining. It feels like fear. Pure fear.”
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She paused, probably thinking I was being overly anxious. “Keep an eye on it. He might just be going through something developmental.”
I wanted to believe her. I really did.
Then Friday came. I was running late for work, and he was wailing again in the hallway. I am sorry to admit this, but I lost it.
“Stop it!” I shouted. “You have to go to daycare!”
The sound of my own voice made me flinch. But worse was the way Johnny stopped mid-sob, frozen like a deer in headlights. He didn’t move or blink. My poor son just stared at me, wide-eyed and trembling.
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I fell to my knees in front of him, finally realizing that Johnny wasn’t being stubborn; my baby was terrified! “I’m sorry,” I said, wrapping my arms around him.
“Sweetheart, why don’t you like daycare anymore?”
He didn’t answer at first. Instead, he stared at the floor before whispering so softly I almost missed it.
“No lunch,” he said. “Please, Mommy… no lunch.”
I froze. Lunch? My stomach dropped.
“No lunch?” I repeated.
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He nodded, then buried his face in my chest like he was ashamed. My stomach turned. I knew he wasn’t a picky eater — he was just a small one. He never forced himself to eat when he wasn’t hungry, and I never made him.
What could lunch have to do with this much dread?
I decided to keep him home that day. Luckily, Kenny, my neighbor’s teenage son, was around, and he gladly took the babysitting job. The best part — Johnny loved Kenny; they got on like a house on fire.
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The next morning was Saturday, but I had some work to catch up on. Johnny’s daycare also opened on weekends, allowing parents to handle errands or get some rest.
So, I tried something different, something gentler. I got down on his level and looked him in the eye.
“I’ll pick you up before lunch today,” I promised. “You won’t have to stay for it. Okay?”
He hesitated, still sniffling, but finally nodded. It was the first time all week that he had let me buckle him into his car seat without sobbing.
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At drop-off, he didn’t run to the door like he used to. Instead, he gave me a look — big, glassy eyes full of pleading. His little hand clutched mine until the very last second. His look when I left — pure desperation — nearly broke me.
I spent the next three hours staring at the clock. At 11:30 a.m., I packed up my things, left work early, and drove to the daycare.
Parents weren’t allowed inside during meals. But the walls in the dining area had glass panels, so I circled the building and peeked in through the side.
And what I saw made my blood boil!
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I pressed my face to the window, scanning the room. And when I finally saw what was happening to my son, I gasped out loud:
“No way!”
My precious Johnny was seated at the end of a long lunch table, head down. Next to him sat an older woman I didn’t recognize. Her gray hair was pulled back in a tight bun, and she wore no staff badge.
Her face was stern — harsh even.
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She picked up Johnny’s spoon and shoved it toward his mouth, pressing it hard against his lips.
He turned his head and cried silently, tears falling freely, but she didn’t stop!
“You’re not leaving until that plate is empty,” she scolded.
That was it. I pushed the door open so hard it slammed into the wall! A couple of staff members jumped.
“Ma’am! You can’t be in here —”
“I don’t care!” I marched across the room, heart racing, fists clenched.
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When Johnny saw me, he gasped. His tiny body shook with relief as I pulled him into my arms.
“If you ever force my child to eat again, I’ll take this to the state,” I said, turning to the woman.
She looked stunned. “It’s our policy; kids must eat what’s served.”
“Policy?” I repeated, my voice rising. “Force-feeding kids until they cry isn’t a policy. It’s abuse!”
She opened her mouth as if she wanted to say more, but I didn’t give her the chance.
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I was beyond livid because I’ve always believed kids know when they’re full. So, seeing someone ignore that, pushing food on him until he cried, was the final straw.
I turned to the stunned daycare staff. “Who is she? Where is her badge?”
Nobody answered.
I took Johnny and walked out.
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That night, after the bath and bedtime stories, I sat on the edge of his bed.
“Honey,” I said gently, “why don’t you want to eat at daycare?”
He curled up under his covers and whispered, “The lady says I’m bad if I don’t finish. She tells the kids I’m wasting food. Everyone laughs.”
His voice broke at the end.
I felt like I’d been punched! He wasn’t scared of the food. He was afraid of being humiliated! That woman had turned his mealtimes into a punishment.
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By Monday morning, I’d called into work and told them I needed to work from home, especially since my son was home with me. Then I called the daycare director, Brenda.
“We don’t force children to eat,” she said quickly, sounding surprised when I explained what I’d seen.
“She picked up his spoon and shoved it into his face,” I said. “He was crying.”
“That doesn’t sound like any of my staff,” Brenda replied, suddenly quiet.
I described the woman: gray bun, floral blouse, glasses on a chain.
There was a long pause.
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“That might be… Miss Claire,” she said carefully. “She’s not officially staff. She’s a volunteer.”
I gripped the phone tighter. “A volunteer? You have volunteers handling children unsupervised?”
“She’s my aunt,” Brenda admitted. “She’s retired and helps out sometimes.”
“Was she background-checked?” I demanded. “Is she trained in childcare? Because she was disciplining my son.”
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“She’s always been good with the kids,” Brenda muttered defensively. “She just has an old-fashioned way —”
I cut her off. “No. No more excuses. She shouldn’t be alone with children! I want to see your policy on volunteers. And I want written confirmation that she won’t be near my son again.”
Brenda didn’t answer. I could hear her breathing through the phone.
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That night, I couldn’t sleep. I kept seeing Johnny’s face — tight with fear, eyes full of tears — and hearing that tiny voice: “No lunch.”
I couldn’t let it go. The next day, I filed a report with the state licensing board.
I wasn’t the first — that’s what they told me. There had been other complaints. Small things, such as kids left in soiled clothes, skipped naps, and frequent staff turnover, but nothing had triggered an inspection.
Until now.
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My report about an unvetted volunteer disciplining children got their attention.
They came within days.
The findings were worse than I had imagined!
The daycare was regularly over capacity. Several staff members lacked proper certifications. Volunteers — like Miss Claire — were unsupervised and not legally allowed to interact with children. And yes, multiple children admitted they’d been “made to finish” their food, even when they felt sick or full!
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It wasn’t just Johnny. It had never been just him.
The state issued a warning: correct everything immediately, or face shutdown.
Brenda called me, furious.
“Why would you go to the state instead of talking to me?” she demanded.
“I did talk to you,” I said calmly. “You protected her.”
There was nothing left to say after that.
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Now here’s the twist that still makes me gasp.
A week later, I ran into Lila, another mom from the daycare, in the grocery store. Her daughter, Sophie, was in Johnny’s class.
She pulled me aside near the bread aisle and said, “Thank you.”
I blinked. “For what?”
“My daughter always cried at lunch too,” she said softly. “I thought she was just being fussy. But after the inspection, she told me Miss Claire used to scold her. Said she was ungrateful if she didn’t eat everything.”
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Lila’s voice cracked. “I feel awful. I kept telling her to stop being picky. But she was scared.”
I placed my hand on her arm. “You didn’t know.”
She nodded, biting her lip. “But your son, he gave mine the courage to speak up.”
That night, I looked at Johnny differently. He hadn’t just saved himself. With that one tiny whisper, he’d started something that protected others, too.
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The daycare, unable to meet the requirements set, lost its license. Some families panicked and scrambled, but most were relieved. We all deserved better.
I found a new daycare for Johnny. One with trained teachers and open communication. One that respected boundaries. Now he runs into the building every morning, arms wide, grinning from ear to ear!
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The staff there actually listened. They greet each child by name and ask questions. They have a flexible lunch policy and keep open communication with parents. On Johnny’s first day there, one of the teachers crouched down to his level and said, “You eat as much or as little as your tummy wants, okay?”
He grinned, a real one!
Then he walked to his new school with his head held high.
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Now, every morning is back to being joyful. He wakes up happy again, singing songs and packing his toys, even though I keep reminding him he can only bring one.
Watching him walk confidently into that new classroom — no fear, no hesitation — reminds me how quickly kids can bounce back when they feel safe.
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And me?
I’ve learned the most important lesson of my life.
Always, always listen to your child. Even when the complaint is small, when it seems silly, and despite the adults brushing it off.
Because sometimes, that tiny voice is the only warning you’ll get.
Johnny’s words still echo in my head.
“No lunch, Mommy.”
They were simple. But they changed everything.
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